hi everyone,this is dr.vivek and this is my very first post.i have lived my entire life in this mysterious subcontinent,INDIA.
though its a beautiful country with culture,traditions,diversity,festivals and much much more but still there are things which baffles a thinking mind.
we all the people here gets ideologies inherited,we are trained in a certain way,and anything or anyone who even tries to go beyond that isnt treated very nicely.
its going to be a long long topic,so lets just try to be very precise.we talk about the rights,right to express,right to speech,right to this and right to that but when you actually think about it we are just puppets,even the very definition of right is just to please our masters.
and this question,which will never be concluded,which is better?the arrange marriage or the love marriage?i am not going to talk about that.i am going to talk about something that is the epitome of hypocricy in our culture.i mean the very foundation of a marriage should be love,that's it.these stupid people not just divide and label it but actually try to defend their cases.marriages in our society are just a compromise or a business or a mean to expand your political influence.
when i was a kid,we used to talk about girls and the girls used to talk about the hot boys,the girls had the dreams and when they reach the right age they are just compromised over an idea that might never materialise.a doctor should marry a doctor,an engineer should marry an engineer,we have a business empire so lets find someone as wealthy as ourselves and just try to expand our empires.this is bloody bullshit...the marriages are mere statement.
we have spent 2 crore on the marriage,we gave them a bmw,a mercedes,the bloody marriage is not about the car or the money but about the two actual people.and we just tend to forget the very basic thing.girls are married against their wishes,boys chicken out right at the moment,just to have a very very safe,calculated life,the life without struggles.in india the state of being very very comfortable is mistaken for being happy.actually the both are two very different states.
we talk about love,lord krishna,lord rama,but fails to implement those feelings when it actually matters.
just want to see the day when the marriage is actually a marriage and not just a trade fair.
lets just try to be little rebellious and bold,lets try to live for ourselves.we can do the business with many things lets just try not to be an object from those many things.
though its a beautiful country with culture,traditions,diversity,festivals and much much more but still there are things which baffles a thinking mind.
we all the people here gets ideologies inherited,we are trained in a certain way,and anything or anyone who even tries to go beyond that isnt treated very nicely.
its going to be a long long topic,so lets just try to be very precise.we talk about the rights,right to express,right to speech,right to this and right to that but when you actually think about it we are just puppets,even the very definition of right is just to please our masters.
and this question,which will never be concluded,which is better?the arrange marriage or the love marriage?i am not going to talk about that.i am going to talk about something that is the epitome of hypocricy in our culture.i mean the very foundation of a marriage should be love,that's it.these stupid people not just divide and label it but actually try to defend their cases.marriages in our society are just a compromise or a business or a mean to expand your political influence.
when i was a kid,we used to talk about girls and the girls used to talk about the hot boys,the girls had the dreams and when they reach the right age they are just compromised over an idea that might never materialise.a doctor should marry a doctor,an engineer should marry an engineer,we have a business empire so lets find someone as wealthy as ourselves and just try to expand our empires.this is bloody bullshit...the marriages are mere statement.
we have spent 2 crore on the marriage,we gave them a bmw,a mercedes,the bloody marriage is not about the car or the money but about the two actual people.and we just tend to forget the very basic thing.girls are married against their wishes,boys chicken out right at the moment,just to have a very very safe,calculated life,the life without struggles.in india the state of being very very comfortable is mistaken for being happy.actually the both are two very different states.
we talk about love,lord krishna,lord rama,but fails to implement those feelings when it actually matters.
just want to see the day when the marriage is actually a marriage and not just a trade fair.
lets just try to be little rebellious and bold,lets try to live for ourselves.we can do the business with many things lets just try not to be an object from those many things.
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ReplyDeletei also have the same opinion as yours....money can be used to serve the poor....
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